1st Advice: If you rectify your relationship with Allah, He will rectify your relationship with others

If you desire help and support Allah says:

"Oh you who believe ! If you help in the cause of Allah, He will help you and make your foothold firm "47:7

If you wish to gain the love and affection of the ppl of faith then Allah Talaa says

"Verily, those who believe [in the Oneness of Allâh and in His Messenger (Muhammad SAW)] and work deeds of righteousness, the Most Gracious (Allâh) will bestow love for them (in the hearts of the believers). "19:96

Hadith on the Authority of Anas bin Malik that the Prophet saas said: "Whoever makes the worldy life his greatest concern, Allah will place poverty between his eyes, and make his affairs scattered, and he will only attain that which is decreed for him, and he will awake and sleep in a state of poverty, and a slave dies not draw near to Allah, the mighty and majestic, except that Allah will make the hearts of the believers turn to him with live, and mercy. And Allah is quick in bringing good

Saheeh At Tirmidhee with slightly different wording.

If you hope for ease and a way out of every difficult situation, knowledge to distinguish truth from falsehood, and right from wrong, then Allah has taken that as his responsibility for the one whi obeys him and keeps his duty to him. Allah the exalted says: 

"....And whosoever fears Allâh and keeps his duty to Him, He will make a way for him to get out (from every difficulty).

And He will provide him from (sources) he never could imagine. And whosoever puts his trust in Allâh, then He will suffice him. Verily, Allâh will accomplish his purpose. Indeed Allâh has set a measure for all things. "65:2-3

"....and whosoever fears Allâh and keeps his duty to Him, He will make his matter easy for him. 65:4

So constantly engaging in obedience of Allah is a means of purification and a safeguard from every evil.

So rectify your relationship with your lord , and He will make your husband upright, as He had done with the spouses of the best of his chosen ones.

Abu Na'eem reported in Hilya on the authority of Ao'n bin Abdullah whi said: "The scholars used to counsel and write to each other with three advices:

1. Whoseever strives fir the hereafter Allah will suffice him in his worldly life.

2. Whosever rectifies his dealings that are done behind closed doors, Allah will correct his affairs that are done openly.

3. And whosever rectifies his relationship with Allah, Allah will rectify his relationship with others.

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So oh my sister! Have trust that Allah will protect you, help you and place you in his custody. If you stand firm upon the straight path, and rectify your relationship with Allah, then this helps to establish both inward and outward happiness. And if Allah blesses you with a pious, just, and intelligent husband then you have the glad tidings of being happy both inwardly and outwardly. But if you are rested with a husband that does not preserve the rights if Allah as related to you the do not destroy the outward and inward happiness, rather submit to Allah's decree, and be patient upon Allah's trials.

~Taken from 20pcs of Advice to my sister before marriage By the noble Scholar

Badr bin Ali Al Utaybee, student of former Mufti of Saudi Arabia Abdul Aziz bin Abdullah bin Baz.

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